Resah

For these past few days, saya sangat resah , sedih dan risau. This feeling started after my friend called bgtau masalah dia...x bole bgtau org laen...tp sy sgt risau, sedih n plus2 lgik la...coz kita org baik. Dia pun tak nak bg tau org lain coz nak jaga air muka husband dia.

Begnilah citernyer, A (i labelled as A) knew this man only for 4 months if i'm not mistaken (kalo salah pun x lebey 5 bln). Then bertunang n terus kawen...The problem started after their marriage la...Barulah si A ni dapat tahu byk masalah dgn si B (husband dia). Ada affair dgn wife org laen, nama blacklisted kat bank negara n rupa2nya semua expenses utk kawen bapak dia yg tanggung (what a useless man!!). Skrg nak isi minyak pun mintak my friend punyer duet!!!*emoticon bengang

Nama blacklisted may be, ini adalah dugaan and they can actually usahakan utk bersihkan nama ke apa ke la (since da kawen kenala tanggung sesama). Tp yg paling i marah sgt her husband yer affair dgn bini org... **d** betul.... Da la tu, si A ni menangis depan dia, dia buat x tau jer..adoi...hati kaldu agaknya...

Baru dua tiga hari kawen da gi jumapa dat Bit**. And dat bit** pun bole call si A marah2. Bengaong ke hapa???. Yg lagik menyakitkan ati ialah his name blaclisted sebab dat bit** buat loan under his name, x bayar....

well, A asked me what she suppose to do. I dont know. seriously i dont know. Before this i selalu jer pkir, dia akan bahagia coz dat guy pandai amik ati dia (bermuka2 rupanya *emoticon geram). So, dalam x tau tu i advised her to sit down together dgn husband dia. Tnya apa yg dia nak...utk clear nama kat CTO* tu they can resolve it 2gether. Tp utk r/ship dgn dat bit**, kalo dia xnak lepaskan, elokla u yg lepaskan tangan ( i pun x tau okehhh). Since diorang selalu jupa lgik n dat bitch pun call maki2 u.. Since u takder anak lepasla...

I advise u to concentrate pada ur study...Habiskan mana yang patut. Daripada u hanya tanggung diri u before this, bertambah lgik beban u. Kalo dia baik xper, ini ada hati buat affair kat blakng u...

untill today, i still tak boleh nak hilangkan rasa risau towards this thing. Macam mana dia nak buat? betul ker i nyer advise ni? atau ada solutions lain yang terbaik..Bila fikirkan keadaan ni, i rasa i'm very lucky coz am really independent n tak terjerumus...

Last but not least, ada my friend kata wife macam tv,gf plak mcm hp...Pls read this as forwarded by one of my good friend...

Wife is like TV, girlfriend is like Handphone (HP).
At home watch TV, go out bring HP.
No money, sell TV. Got money change HP.
Sometimes enjoy TV, but most of the time play with HP.
TV free for life but HP, if you don't pay the services will beterminated
TV is big, bulky and most of the time old, but handphone is cute, slim,curvy and very portable at any time.
Operational cost for TV is often acceptable but for HP is high andoftendemanding,
Most Important, TV got remote.. HP don't have..
Last but not least....... .TV do not have virus, but h/p yes......... .have VIRUS....... .......once get it, HABIS LA. ....

In conclusion, i believe dat we must get to know each other better before get married. Jgn tergesa2 nak kawen just becoz org lain da kawen...

To A, sabarla, semua yg berlaku ada hikmahnyer...